Friday, June 08, 2007

Yet Even at the Grave We Make Our Song: Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia











This has been an devastating time for us and for our faith community. On Thursday, May 31st, our dear friend and the matriarch of our congregation, 91 year old Fran, died from a head injury resulting from a fall at her home. Darling Fran, everyone one who met you loved and admired you. Your strength, your faith, your poets soul- I will never forget you. One of the greatest honors of my life was to be a pallbearer at your funeral. Did you hear the bagpiper on that day? Amazing Grace, indeed.


On Sunday, June 3rd, our little congregation held a special service in honor of Fran and her many years of service to the Church. We were all hurting, but managed to find in our grief an equal level of joy for the gift and blessing that Fran was to all of us.


That afternoon we received a phone call that drove us to our knees, literally and figuratively. Our beloved friend, missioner, and the Bishop of Northern Michigan, Jim Kelsey, was driving home from a congregational visit in the eastern U.P. and was killed in a terrible car accident.


Words cannot express the depth and width of the grief that engulfs Jim's family, friends, and colleagues in the Episcopal Church- both within this diocese, across the nation, and in the world-wide Anglican Communion.

"The Episcopal Church has today lost one of its bright lights," Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori said. "We will be less without the easy grace of Bishop James Kelsey -- Jim to most of us -- and we shall miss his humor, insight, and passion for the ministry of all. He gave us much. We pray for the repose of his soul, and for his family. We pray also for the Diocese of Northern Michigan. All of us have lost a friend. May he rest in peace and rise in glory."


I encourage you to take a few minutes to read the following article by Episcopal Life Online reporter Herb Gunn, "The heart of ministry: the life and death of Jim Kelsey" :http://www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_86722_ENG_HTM.htm

God's peace, Jim. We have been so richly blessed to know and love you. My heart is broken: to me, you were a father, a brother, a spiritual advisor, a friend, and a teacher. Your memorial was such a celebration of your life and ministry! Even though, as Fran said, we carry on with broken hearts, we hold within our hearts and our memories your extraordinary example of faithfulness, unconditional love, and passion for justice. Do you know how many people gathered together to celebrate your life? Each and everyone of them adore you and aspire to live as faithfully and lovingly as you did with such "easy grace."



*above photos are: 1. Jim with his darling puppy, Juniper. photo is credited to Brother Jacob: http://brotherjacob.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/bishop-jim-kelsey/ 2. Jim and myself signing a document, the day Jim brought the Franscican brothers to our house to spend time with our congregation's ministry support team. 2. our beloved Fran sitting on our couch with one of the brothers. 3. Jim Kelsey and the Franciscans posing for a photo in our living room.








9 comments:

S. said...

What a terrible loss! I am so very sorry. How difficult for his family, who should have been celebrating a wedding and instead a funeral. He sounds like a remarkaable person.

Anonymous said...

Kelly,

I am so sorry for your losses. It really seems like when it rains, it pours, doesn't it?

KelleyO said...

I'm so sorry sweetie! Big hugs.

Anonymous said...

They sound like two incredible people. You were blessed to know them. And I'm sorry for your loss.

Dianna said...

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of two such important people in your life. I hope you find peace.

Kathryn said...

So sorry for these losses. These sudden deaths are always so much harder than thosea after a long illness. Hugs!

Kathryn said...

Just checked Shannon's website and she got the CHI update for the week. They did not get any referrals. What a bummer; they really need to get in to a few more orphanages, with the waiting list getting so long. I really want my son (or daughter; I'm planning on a son though) home by Christmas 2008.

Ange said...

I'm really sorry for your loss, what a rough time you've been through. Take care of yourself.

Cara said...

I'm so sorry for your losses. Keeping you in my prayers!